As a nonbinary individual who has navigated the complexities of breast cancer and a full mastectomy, I’ve often felt disconnected from my body. I’ve longed to reclaim a sense of agency and self-compassion, which led me to book a boudoir session with Honey Suckle Boudoir. Initially, the boudoir space seemed daunting, not quite fitting with my gender identity and recent experiences. However, I knew it was time to do something uniquely for myself.
The session itself was transformative. Despite regularly ending up with photos ranging from enthusiastically mediocre to downright deletable, having professional guidance in posing and expression changed everything. It was exhilarating to see myself in a new light, and witnessing the final pictures was incredibly affirming.
Going into the session, my biggest worry was what to wear. Packing a bag with a few options, I was overthinking and unsure. But once I let go of trying to plan every detail and embraced the spontaneity of experimenting with different styles—many of which I’d never considered before—I found joy and excitement in the exploration. It was intimidating but so rewarding to step outside my usual boundaries.
For anyone considering a boudoir session, especially those who might feel marginalized or out of place, I say go for it. Don’t wait for life to throw you a curveball. The session proved to be a soothing reprieve from the chaos of my past year dealing with cancer. It was exhausting, perfect, and fun all at once. I spent a long time thinking this space wasn’t for me due to my gender identity and physical changes, but I was wrong. These aspects of my identity weren’t obstacles; they were powerful facets of my story to express and embrace.
This experience allowed me to feel like a simple, cohesive whole for a few hours on a weekday afternoon, and that profound sense of self has lingered. Honey Suckle Boudoir not only provided an environment where I could be authentically me but also helped me celebrate and reclaim the parts of myself I thought I had lost.
